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| Ok so I need to vent!
This morning got up again to go to gym. The past 3 days hubby has slept in til he gets up at 9 am. I do my thing at the gym and go to work from there. Today I checked my phone did not see missed calls. Get to work and see he called like 15 times. Starting 15 minutes after I left the house. He is acting all weird now and seems mad. Like he does not trust me. WTH? What would you guys do?
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09-13-07, 11:45 AM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
Tell him to get his ass up and go work out with you....
Turn it on him, ask him why he's so worried, is it because he's cheating on you and he's covering for his mistakes? Ask him why he's so insecure! 
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09-13-07, 11:49 AM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
I should so be used to this stuff. I don't know if it is the "cheating" thought that is going through his mind or what. But who in gods name will answer their phone while working out. He asked where the gym was today. Nice. I am always at fault one way or another. Lets see what happens today. He must be worried that since I am getting up at 4:50 am each day to workout and never have before that something is going on.
If I try to turn it around on him it makes him more mad. I know this routine by now. He never said he was mad just the fact that when i said good bye and I love you he said ok and hung up.
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09-13-07, 01:37 PM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
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Originally Posted by inlove  I should so be used to this stuff. I don't know if it is the "cheating" thought that is going through his mind or what. But who in gods name will answer their phone while working out. He asked where the gym was today. Nice. I am always at fault one way or another. Lets see what happens today. He must be worried that since I am getting up at 4:50 am each day to workout and never have before that something is going on.
If I try to turn it around on him it makes him more mad. I know this routine by now. He never said he was mad just the fact that when i said good bye and I love you he said ok and hung up. | Ruh roh, he's going to be sitting in the parking lot on a stake out watching you. 
Tell him to quit whining and come along if he's so insecure about it. The problem with gyms are that there are a lot of guys in good shape there, and it might bug him, or it could be that he's afraid that as you drop a few pounds, you'll gain more confidence in yourself, others might find you more attractive, and well, that could lead to extramarital stuff. Tell him to stop watching TV.
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09-13-07, 01:46 PM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
LOL I agree. With my luck that would happen. Him watching. Oh well I am not hiding anything.
I think that is the issue too. That he may be afraid. I have a bit more confidence now. But it is lost when I have to put my workout pants on. LOL I hope he gets over whatever is bothering him. Who knows you men are goofy sometimes.
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09-13-07, 02:56 PM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
So we all decided for both of you, you take him with you to the gym, and make him sweat until he believes you! ;P
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
There you go. Like I said I bet it is cause I am getting up at 4:50 am each day to go workout and never have. That and I don't know what goes through a mans brain sometimes.....
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09-13-07, 03:52 PM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
Hmm, only thing that goes through my mind is lift weights, eat food and sex...
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09-13-07, 03:57 PM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
Exactly. So if he does not lift weights when I do, and is not eating....I think the last one is the problem.
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09-14-07, 06:49 AM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
Maybe he's afraid you"ll get stronger than him?! 
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09-14-07, 08:32 AM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
LOL
Funny thing is all was well. He never got mad officially. Maybe he realized how silly he was being.
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
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Originally Posted by inlove LOL
Funny thing is all was well. He never got mad officially. Maybe he realized how silly he was being. | So you talked to him about it and he's OK with it now? 
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09-14-07, 04:02 PM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
We did not really talk. I think he got over whatever his issue was before we talked again yesterday. Maybe he did not want me to workout yesterday who knows.
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09-15-07, 04:50 AM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
Well, ok, but if he acts like that again, send him here! .gif ";)")
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09-15-07, 09:33 AM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
LOL Sounds good. I get this sort of thing from him from time to time. If he does something wrong I get mad and then it gets turned around and I am wrong for it.
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09-18-07, 07:12 PM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
If he gets crabby or jealous about your not being there, tell him he can solve the problem by getting up and going to work out with you !!!!! | |
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
I know. Things are fine now that he works nights. So I get up at 4:45 am and go workout and he does not get home til after I am at work. Stinks being alone but I guess he can not be mad now.
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09-19-07, 12:06 AM
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
LOL, You can't win em all, can you?
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| Re: Ok so I need to vent!
I only wish I could.
Yeah if I am lucky I will win at something one day.
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