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Originally Posted by inlove I wish I did. Guess I am more vocal about it then he is. No one else worries about this? Or is it cause I am 26? LOL |
Women I think are more into the whole romance, special occasion kind of thing too. It couldn't hurt to encourage action on his part too. His favorite dinner cooked for him, plus a nice foot massage after work and maybe a little private show might really get his attention....especially if you do it for no reason. Get things started yourself and hopefully he'll follow suit.
Sometimes communication is key too. A lot of guys don't understand that sometimes even the little things make a big different in the relationship. Leaving a sexy/romantic comment on a sticky note in your car for example. Taking care of all the cleaning including some of the things you normally do. Unexpected shoulder rub. Joining you while you watch a TV show that normally he'd never watch with you. Things like this tend to mean a lot to women from my past experiences, but a lot of guys just don't understand.
Sometimes they need to be told. A lot of guys aren't mind readers when it comes to the romance stuff....and women want the guys to pick up on subtle signals and hints. We're just not that good at it. We're better at following directions.
