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Originally Posted by inlove  Ok is it just me or what....
I mean I have been with my husband since we were 14, so of course I was smaller then. We have offically been married a bit over a year now. So 11 years of being with the same person. I am trying to lose weight for my self confidence and his interest. But somehow worry that I am not cutting it anymore. I mean since I have been trying to lose this weight I feel he has looked more....but I still worry. I want to be super irrisistable to him. |
i know he appreciates what you are doing for him, and whether or not you succeed in hitting your goals he should be proud and appreciative that you are trying partially for him.
do not forget that physical is only a part of things. when you are in your 70s or 80s do you really think that physical attraction is going to be that important as it is now? as time moves on your relationship will have to evolve and adapt