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Originally Posted by heidrun Well my ex got me fooled for 5 and a half year... Plus my parents are so obsessed with the idea that I have been their whole problem because they simply cant face the fact that they treated me like poopy when I was a child and needed their help and thats why I got so fucked up... Well I dumped my friends, and frankly I think they are scared to contact me, because I dont behave like their submissive carpet anymore... I have always been there for my friends through thick and thin.. but they are used to take me for granted plus the bullying in my town had put me in the lowest category of "popularity" so initially they became my friends because they felt sorry for me, and tolerated me as long as I kept my mouth shut and did what they wanted me to do. The thing is also now that I am completely alone through all this process but the funny thing that it is just teaching me to be stronger minded and more independent... it is not a positive thing to have your whole support system bail you... but its in a way positive because it makes me more stronger and independent, and more MYSELF, not having to rely on anyone... |
It sounds like those weren't real friends anyway. Good for you for sending them packing. It's too bad you can't go somewhere to get a fresh start where you'll meet people who will see you for who you are today. As far as your parents go, it seems like a lost cause.
It's sad that they haven't been there for you like they should have been.
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Originally Posted by heidrun It works!!! trust me  |
Well keep us posted of the results
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Originally Posted by heidrun Trust me... I am from a farm with barb wire fences all through the grassfields so I know how to handle the sucker... Plus I am so strong now that it is very easy for me to lift it up over my head or anywhere and bang it down HARD... I wont miss, trust me  I dont know how to handle guns, plus Iceland isnt really a gun country, cant buy them in stores like in the states, only used for hunting. If I had a gun I would just miss the fucker.. I have a sledgehammer, a tool that I am very familiar and have used thousounds times to bang down fence polls with so it will be extremely affective when I use it.. I am not surprised if you think a sledgehammer is a bad home protection when you havent used one in your life, but I have so I am covered.  |
I actually have used a sledgehammer before, just not for home protection
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Sledgehammers can't be swung with the same speed as say a baseball bat or sword so IMO it's easier to get out of the way, but it sounds like you have it mastered, so I'll take your word on that. I'm just glad I'm not your ex b/f!
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Originally Posted by heidrun I can try to get a restraining order on him, but I doubt the police will accept it.. He himself is a police butt orifice-licker and I have a history of mental illness and nothing to prove that he is a psycho so I am not even trying to get one... I have my sledgehammer... a picture of it is on my Icelandic blog and he READS IT, so he knows what awaits him and he is such a coward when it comes to furious people with sledgehammers. |
Do you have any proof of his mistreating of you? If you can get people to vouch on your behalf that he physically abused you I don't see how they would not accept it. Here in the US it's up to the judge to decide on the restraining order, not the cops. Just be careful, since he knows you have a sledgehammer, he may be tempted to come prepared with some sort of weapon himself....and watch out for your pets with that thing!