[heidrun]

I'm amazed that your own parents side with your ex-boyfriend. He must be quite the manipulator. It is very sad though sad . In a time when your friends won't be proactive to stay with you, can you be proactive to stay with your friends? shrug

Well my ex got me fooled for 5 and a half year... Plus my parents are so obsessed with the idea that I have been their whole problem because they simply cant face the fact that they treated me like shit when I was a child and needed their help and thats why I got so fucked up... Well I dumped my friends, and frankly I think they are scared to contact me, because I dont behave like their submissive carpet anymore... I have always been there for my friends through thick and thin.. but they are used to take me for granted plus the bullying in my town had put me in the lowest category of "popularity" so initially they became my friends because they felt sorry for me, and tolerated me as long as I kept my mouth shut and did what they wanted me to do. The thing is also now that I am completely alone through all this process but the funny thing that it is just teaching me to be stronger minded and more independent... it is not a positive thing to have your whole support system bail you... but its in a way positive because it makes me more stronger and independent, and more MYSELF, not having to rely on anyone...

think2 How do you know it works if you just got it? Anyone else had success with it? I must say it's a very impressive piece of art!

It works!!! trust me

Well, the new locks were a great idea, but a sledge hammer is probably one of the worst home protections pieces you can have. Because of how heavy it is, all it takes is one miss and you are very exposed to a counter-attack of some sort. I would think a baseball bat or something lighter could do a good amount of damage as well and would be much easier to use. I personally have a katana sword as well as a few guns at my place for home protection. Do you have the ability to get a restraining order on your ex similar to what we have in the states? ....where he would not be allowed to come within a certain distance (say 50 meters) from you, and could not contact you?

Your pictures look great by the way! I can definitely tell you've lost some weight! Be patient, the single men will be banging down your door soon! gavel

BTW, if you decide to fix the fence topless, be sure to take pics naughty

Trust me... I am from a farm with barb wire fences all through the grassfields so I know how to handle the sucker... Plus I am so strong now that it is very easy for me to lift it up over my head or anywhere and bang it down HARD... I wont miss, trust me I dont know how to handle guns, plus Iceland isnt really a gun country, cant buy them in stores like in the states, only used for hunting. If I had a gun I would just miss the fucker.. I have a sledgehammer, a tool that I am very familiar and have used thousounds times to bang down fence polls with so it will be extremely affective when I use it.. I am not surprised if you think a sledgehammer is a bad home protection when you havent used one in your life, but I have so I am covered.

I can try to get a restraining order on him, but I doubt the police will accept it.. He himself is a police ass-licker and I have a history of mental illness and nothing to prove that he is a psycho so I am not even trying to get one... I have my sledgehammer... a picture of it is on my Icelandic blog and he READS IT, so he knows what awaits him and he is such a coward when it comes to furious people with sledgehammers.