[bigdaddy38]

Jimmy good post,you bring up a lot of important facts, at some point you do have to just buck up and make a change. But its not that easy I have been unhappy for years an started and stopped exercising lots of times, and to top it off I was in the health club business, but for me I think the more that people told me that I needed to lose weight the more depressed I became and the harder it got to make those changes, any way I could write a book about this stuff. Oh and the suit thing don't feel bad since I was a weight lifter for so many years I have huge shoulders combine that with being fat and I can't even where a suit not even the biggest size they sell.