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I have been doing pretty good on my diet lately, slow but good. Trying to do the exercises that I can, and watching what I eat. My spouse has never really been too supportive, but last night they went too far. I was told that I was much more attractive when I was smaller. Ever since the back surgeries I have been unable to do very much, and all of the weight just sorta popped up. I told them that I did not gain because I wanted to it just got away from me. I guess you like to think you got married for better or worse, not skinny or fat. They have put on some weight in our eight year marriage too, but I still see the beautiful person that I married. I still love them, but man that's pretty shallow. I guess some people are better at letting their true feelings known than others. Seems like just when you get up a little bit..........BOOM, somethings there to knock you down. I refuse to get any lower than I am. I WILL be successful! I did not say all of this for anyone's pity. I just went to the only place that I could vent, and get some support. I knew that the people on this site would understand, and give some comforting words. THANKS GUYS!